Aggession

[MICHELLE]

hi i have a 14year old son ,who seems quit able, but for nearly 3 year his had arression to wards others in a way of runing at poeple and pulling hair his so big and its quit scarey, his on med which help his anxiaty,but still has this problem it seem to happen only when his up set about something and holds it in, his had no speech and lang for 3 years which havent helped, dose anyone no where i could take him ,to help sort out his emotions any centres in uk where they would help him deal with these things, any in put would be nice :rolleyes:

[dave]

Hi Michelle

If you can give us a bit more info about where you live we can almost certainly point you in the right direction. It sounds like you're having a tough time and it's good you got in contact. Alternately you could ring the Studio 3 office as they have good database of contacts.

Good luck

Dave W

[andy]

This sounds extremely distressing for the both of you. To answer your main question we really need more information. It is true that you should be entitled to support from your local services. In addition I would suggest you contact Graeme Brady at our office (01225 334111) and discuss the matter confidentially with him I am sure that we can put you in touch with people who can help.

[forumAdmin]

Hi all
Michelle has been in touch by email as she was having password problems - hopefully she will get a chance to post soon.

[forumAdmin]

Received by email

06 December 2006 07:10
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hi i seem to have got every one worked up i do have suport and services are very good, get restbit ect , but there dosent seem to be any one who wants to actly help my son, apart from med,mainly because his problems only happens at school, and school addmit blame for his aggression due to puting him where he couldnt cope,his leaving soon, just wondered if there was any sort of centres in uk that teach kids like my son understand there feelings and learn about how to let them out ,at home his fine because we can tell when his upset and with a bit of tlc we can find the cause, but when out or at school instead of telling ,he acts but at school they dont look at the cause , just his actions i do have alot of suport and been breakaway classes you name it i have done it but i was wondering about something that helps my son he know he has a problem hopfuly will get better when he leaves school sorry for getting everyone worked up you seem to have got the wrong impression my so
n is lovely and has a sence of humer loves cuddles that why i am asking about any centre that teach kids like my son to understand feelings by role acting ,vidos ect i no they do in america well thanks any way sorry for giving wrong impression bye michelle ps lost me pass word thats why answers likes this, have not got computer its a friends

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I sent the password info and received this next


07 December 2006 08:00
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still cant regester,please just pass message on, as dont have use of computer after today so this was last chance, tell them i do get support that wasnt the question, everything is fine here just wanted to no if there was any centres for kids to learn via vidos ect,not for parents thank you ,you won t hear from me after this as not my computer so please unregester me thankyou ,sorry about this bye. michelle

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[simonfinney]

How strange!!!!

[on the edge]

I don't live in UK so don't know what is available but as far as no language and the frustration that must come from that can certainly lead to aggression. Has the school tried PEC systems. Picture exchange system While someone may not have speech they may be able to use pictures to show what they need or want.Sign language is also something that can be used. The frustration of not being able to let people know what they need or want or how they feel would be awful and there are many alternatives to speech. Hope this helps